They were cougars dressed in hockey jerseys cheering on their favorite team.

Their foul language was a definite clue to their relationship status: single cougar desperate for attention. (SCDA)

I want to be very clear here. Obnoxious behavior is no way shape or form a way to a lasting, loving relationship! It speaks of dating desperation and is a huge turn off when dating men.

While bad behavior may attract men in the short run, it will turn them off in the near term. (these women were able to snag a man to sit with them after yelling at him)

Beyond the dating tips, it’s interesting to note what sexologist, Logan Levkoff, has to say about the beginning of a relationship compared to one that’s more mature.

Make no mistake.

Love changes. It can get better. It can get worse or it can simply change.

Nuzzling, cuddling, kissing are all activities that bring a man and a woman together. As we get older, we tend to stray from these things that originally brought us together.

The take home message for me is that maybe we should all be going back into our old bag of tricks to spark a new romance.

Dating, nuzzling, kissing and canoodling don’t have to be so hard!

So what makes a guy attracted to one girl and not the other? Scientists think they have the answer in two things. First, men like a thinner woman and second they like a seductive woman.

Hold the presses!

Who would have thought?

Evolutionary biologists would say that this is no big surprise. A seductive and thin woman would be one that’s less likely pregnant and more likely ovulating. These are all cues to the male brain to have sex! Woman’s waist lines even get skinnier when they ovulate signaling the male brain that she’s ready to get pregnant.

The male brain has to be ready for these cues as that’s when he’s most likely to get his mate pregnant or so goes what some scientists see as sex appeal.

As far as how this might help you when you’re out dating? I would say that you should be alert to your body how you feel and how your body feels when your with a man. Evaluate it on a week by week basis. In this way you can get in better touch with you and your man’s feelings and make your relationship better.