So what to do if your dating a guy that doesn’t believe in marriage?

As brought up in this great video, I to think you should clarify the guy’s position. Does he believe in monogamous relationships without the bonds of holy matrimony? Is he gun shy after seeing his own parents marriage blow up? Is he not sure about you? Is he not sure about himself? Is he happy just dating and waiting?

That last one may have caught you off guard so let me explain. When guys are dating they are just as much trying to find themselves as they are trying to find you, Miss Right. A guy in his twenties is still trying to find himself at work and at play. It wasn’t long ago that his parents and teachers were telling him when and where to go so now he relishes the freedom he has in his twenties and doesn’t want to let it go.

So he may have other things on his mind besides tying the knot and tying himself down with a new woman.

So while your still happily dating your possible husband in the making I suggest you find out how his life is going. Is his work fulfilling? If he had no attachments what would he do with his life? Where would he live? What would his dream job be? What does he think of his parents marriage? What does he think of the marriages/relationships his friends and family?

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