And the saga continues…

Time and time again I hear from women who don’t get called back after the first sexual encounter. They had gone on a number of dates, really liked the guy and thought it was “go” time. The guy for his part did the deed well but then kept going and going and going never looking back. The women were left waiting by the phone, one that never rings for them.

What gives?

Those first couple months are seen by most guys as a time of outright lustful pursuit. It’s not in any way meant as an insult mind you. Guy’s minds are wired to pursue and conquer you and your beauty. Most will say anything convenient to satisfy this lust. Your beauty drives men wild even as they don’t let on. While this might not seem true to your needs, it is very much in keeping with his needs and wants. He’s being very true to what’s driving him to go out with you and after all, he’s known himself far longer than he’s known you. Hasn’t he?

In an interview I recently did with Alisa Goodwin Snell, author of Dating Game Secrets for Marrying a Good Man, Snell revealed that women should see their guy sacrifice something.

What might that involve you ask?

Chickens? Goats? Virgins?

The answer is best summed up with two words: his time. You should ask him to spend a Saturday or Sunday with you at your favorite charitable organization. This will reveal several things to you that going to dinner, the movies, or put-put golf will never show you:

1. Disposition…His ability to interact with you and others in an unfamiliar and challenging situation. Is he kind and courteous to others?
2. Character…Did he show up on time with bells on?
3. Energy Level…Was he excited to see you the day of?
4. Work Ethic…Did he complain the whole time?

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